How about online grad school programs? Stay with your parents till you finish the online school and then move out?

$1600 isn't much, but it's do-able. What about finding a roommate to split the expenses in an apartment. I'm not sure how much they run in your neck of the woods, but even if a 2 bedroom is $1000/month, that's only $500 of your salary, leaving $1100 for other expenses. It may not be the most glamorous apartment but it would get you out of your parents home.

While at your parents home, try to save as much as you can to make a move possible.

Also, what about finding a job outside of social services that would still allow you to work with children. Working for school systems as a psychologist is an option. Always check positions within the different counties to see what's become available.

Or you could move in with your boyfriend if it's at that stage.

Good luck!

many of my coworkers are in their thirties and have housemates. it seems to be normal in the city (Boston) until you get married or something. there's a guy i know who lived with his fiance and a roommate...

also consider cheaper areas that you could commute from.