My name is Constance, the Ex-Wife of Michael Jay Bulger. Or mikee5293, mikejb5293, mike5293 google and you'll see. I'm writing to you because I'm am a VICTIM also. Although my divorce to Michael wasn't final until last November 9, 2007, I have known for a long time about some of his girlfriends. Mail from them would come to the house and I would read them, trying to figure out what he was up too since he was spending all day on paid dating sites, smoking 4 packs and I was paying the bills. Once I found out what he was doing, I moved out and we were separated. He put my picts.all over the web showing off to his ladies telling that he was a WIDOW!

Then he lied his way back into my life for another year and a half, telling me he was working abroad not telling me he abandoned a lady in Panama no money, no food, no visa, many unpaid bills, no airfare telling her thousands of lies, until I said "NO MORE!" I kicked him out and we divorced.He used a fake address in Las Vegas, Romantic Sunset St. So, I will try to explain the "real" truth about Michael, a 63 years old man born to cheat and lie to women, he had a unhappy childhood, drunken, absent father.

As far as the 2001 Lincoln Car he talks about? I acquired a loan in my name for that car for him, but he had to make the payments since he had bad credit in Ohio. This is why he has bad dentures, disgusting skin,many diseases. He kept the payments up until he left the US telling he found ajob abroad (lie...he moved to Panama bringing wornout stuff from his parents, old clothes, a shame) and then he told Chris that he could have the car. He has no legal rights to it and I have made legal arrangements to keep his hands off the car unless he pays for it. but how with a small pension?.

He is a low down scoundrel who preys on filipino, panamenian or any women. He likes to control everything in his life including women. He is mean, disgusting, arrogant, lying bastard and is not going to change. He is a mentally, sick user and has practiced his act and lies for many years.

Carmen, a mexican woman left him for all the reasons above and many more. Michael was doing his internet dating thing even while he was married to Carmen. He controlled her life for 22 years while they were married. She waited for her last son, Sean, to turn 18yrs old and then she left him. He tried to sue her in court, but could never get a lot of money from her. He tried to make it out like it was all her fault. Carmen run off with a black man and his house in Pataskala was foreclosured. He went into bankruptcy in Sept.2006. Reason? a COMPULSION for paid dating sites even being impotent..

Since Michael is so prejudges against blacks, he still tried to make her life a living hell by writing letters to her boss, the head of a bank and tried to get her fired. Now he is online again and again asking women's money for his trips maybe a new car since his is old.

Now about me and his family. His sons are nothing like he says. We have come together to bond as a family to make sure Michael's lies and scams are stopped. We have notified the U.S. Immigration, FBI, Texas Rangers, my local Police Department (my youngest son is a policeman), Homeland Security, Border Patrol, Dept. of Defense, and anyone else that can be of legal assistance to us. He is no longer welcome in the United States or his hometown. If he tries to come home, each one of these authorities will be notified and he will be taken into custody for fraud and deceit. As far as I know, he has not given up his U.S. Citizenship. So when his luck runs out in the Phillipines and he wants to run back here, he will be met with a lot of problems. He has no family support here and never will again.

Now about me. When I married Michael in May 2004, I had no idea he was the way he is. A crook...Compulsive liar. I tried to hold the marriage together, but he was just looking for another woman to take care of him. Michael was about to get fired from gov.job when he put in his retirement papers and he left the Federal Government as quickly as he could before they found out what he was doing. All the complaints that I'm a b*tch, he hated me, etc. He never had to stay with me if he didn't want to. He was always free to go whenever he wanted to, but, you see, he was always broke. Because of his quick retirement, he doesn't get that much of a pension. I have always taken care of myself, personally, and financially. I've always made and had my own money and he didn't like that, so he started telling lies to get my money, which never happened. All the blogs on the panama, colombia, mexico and phillipine sites identify me as a withered, dried up old lady, but just for the record, I am a Fitness Tech and a well known women's 30 min. fitness center in Columbus, and have always taken care of myself. Even though Michael didn't love me just wanted my pension, he was so jealous of other men looking at me - and I was healthy and he was not. I had money and he was always broke, bad credit all over US...Yes, I'm sticking up for myself, because what has been said on the blogs is not true. In fact, it is the farthest from the truth. Those are the lies that he has told everyone, including you and your wife.

I hope this clears up a few things. I'm sorry you ever met Michael Jay Bulger and his sons are devastated that this is the man that calls himself their father. They have disowned him and he continues to try to discredit their family in Brighton, Co. Alice, Tx, Sonoita, Az. and their lives as well as mine. Now I am scared to meet men, many can be like him.

His sister Michelle B. in Sonoita, Az, marrried to Richard, poor man, has been called an overweight funny pathetic woman with strange haircut because she did not give him money and married nine times.

I wish you the best ladies, do not believe webcrooks like MJB anymore. May God be with you.

connie spence archuleta bulger (i carry this name with shame.he has no honor or dignity!!) Have a Blessed Day, ladies.