So I'm new here, I have been looking for something that would let me connect to other ladies who have experienced more than me being in a military relationship. No I'm not married, I'm just a girlfriend, but I have had something bothering me soo much lately that my boyfriend mentioned to me the other day.
Well to start my boyfriend is finishing up training I do not really want to mention the base because I do not want this to cause a stir and he has met some amazing new guys down there. The thing is that he has this one friend, whom I thought was such an amazing guy when I first met him, well turns out he really is not. This guy had been with his girlfriend for seven years and they decided to get married two months ago, well come to find out he decided to cheat with a girl who is in the army and in a different company, I was absolutely devastated by this. I never in my wildest dreams could see this guy cheating on his wife. I know its really none of my business but it is just so upsetting. I know my boyfriend would never do that, he wont even talk to his friend because of this. I know his wife will probably never know but having that in the back of my mind just keeps constantly bothering me, I just feel so bad for her. Sorry its kind of a useless post but I was thinking some of you ladies could help me out with this. Thank you!
These situations are so hard. :/
I can never decide if you should tell the girl because she deserves to know, or not because it's none of your business...
All I can say, is that if I was the girl being cheated on, I would want anyone that knew to tell me. Even if I didn't believe them at first, at least I would have a heads up and be more careful and maybe think about it a litttle. Especially if I was about to get married!! Then I would really want people to tell me before I made such a huge change in my life!!
Just wondering though, how exactly do you know he cheated?