I can't stand this - she's completely rude to him every chance she gets, and he doesn't even do anything to her. Okay, I started dating him when I broke up with my girlfriend over the summer, and she started dating one of my friends, but they broke up because she thought he was a know-it-all. And he was. Truthfully.

Anyway after that she started dating this guy that she had met on the internet ON THE INTERNET, and became a complete b*tch to him ever since. I don't know what the hell is going on, but he doesn't even do anything to her and she's a b*tch to him. Like, apparently she thinks his face looks like a "ninja turtle" and it was an inside joke at first when we got along really good, but now she just uses it as a cruel insult towards him. She glares at him, and tries to make him stop talking whenever he's trying to explain something that happened or whatever to me or someone else. I f*cking hate it and I can't stand it anymore.

I don't even treat the "fifteen" year old that she's dating online that bad. I've never even talked bad about him that harshly, in fact I hardly ever talk about him at all, but she bad mouths him non-stop, and my MOM takes HER side half the time when this sh*t goes on. It f*cking pisses me off to no end. Any advice, anyone? I'm gonna blow my mind pretty soon if I don't get out of here! >.

My boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me about a month ago. Before the break up things were great, we were having a wonderful summer. We talked of being together forever and so did everyone who knew us. We were so in love. But he had other things going on in his life. We're both trying to get through college and he is struggling to make it through school. He didn't get into the school he wanted to and is now taking a year off to work because he's not in school. Its a hard issue for him and he didn't like to talk about it. I think he feels like a failure. I'm doing really well in school and everything is just going very well and I feel like he sees my success and wants to do better but can't at the moment not being in school. Anyway, the last few months before he broke up with me he seemed different. He started becoming more selfish and rude and i hadn't changed so I knew something was wrong. He SAYS he "didn't love me the same anymore" And that he just wanted to be friends. But his behavior since the break up has shown nothing like that. I know that he was very stressed with the issue of school and work and how none of it was going as planned. Recently, I decided to stop contacting him and stop answering his phone calls. And noticed that his phone calls starting coming more frequently and he tried to get in contact with me much more often. I'd answer him maybe once at the end of the day but it was very short and just to let him know I'm on the other end. It feels like he's just not ready to grow up and be a responsible adult and I'm not interested if that's the case. But when we DO see each other, which is rare, He tries to flirt with me and wants to be near me and I just don't want that. If he didn't want to be together anymore then that is how he should behave. When he's home all he does is play video games. He only works 3 days a week and still has not gotten more hours with his wealth of free time. I do love him and he's very important to me. He has a big heart and a personality that matches mine so well. BUT he just doesn't want to act his age. I think he got scared of the commitment we were making and when talking about our break up he told me he knew he couldn't give me everything I deserved and only wanted to be with me if/when he COULD give me all that he could and more than I deserve. He's a wonderful guy, but I feel like he broke up with me so he could put off growing up. And I'm sick of dealing with him calling me all the time and wanting to flirt with me and act as if we're together when we're not. I've tried to talk to him and set boundaries but so far all he's done is try to surpass them. My question is, what ELSE can I do to get the point across? How can I help him realize that he needs to be more responsible and that he needs to choose, either we're together or we're not, there's no happy medium. I've tried talking to him.. Maybe I'm not saying the right things? How can I communicate these things and ultimately HELP him find his way.

So I have been dating the neighbour for about a year now. We are in love and with all confidence I can say that he is head over heels in love with me and I with him. He tells me all the time that we are forever and I would guess we will be engaged before next summer. He has dropped small hints and even brought home the Tiffany Diamond Ring book last time he bought me a gift from there (a gorgeous necklace to match the bracelet and earings he got me from there).

The bummer

The ex girlfriend continues to call him. She hadn't called since last december and when she did call he told her he was seeing somebody else and didn't want to speak with her any more. And I thought he was rid of her. Well about 3 weeks ago on Saturday morning at 3 a.m. she called him crying. I was laying in bed and he told her that she needed to call someone else because he couldn't help her and that they were friends and she needed to call somebody that knew her better! He hung up and she didn't call back. . . Again I thought ok she got the point were rid of her. She called his cell phone this morning at 5 a.m. he answered the phone and she wanted to talk he told her that he had a girlfriend and that I was living with him and that she can't be calling and that he does not want her to call him anymore. I could clearly hear the psycho B$#%@ saying "tell your girlfriend I don't need her reiterating the whole conversation, I know you your not like this I know you" obviously it was 5 a.m. and I was freaking out. Finally I just grabbed the phone and was like "you don't know him, and your not his problem, your not my problem and stop calling him your a psychotic B$#%@" and I hung up the phone.

I think this girl is major low class low income trash and she obviously now knows how good of a thing she lost and is reaching out to get back in.

Do you think I was wrong?? Should I have been so rude? I don't regret it I just feel as though perhaps I stuped to her level and I'm worried she is either going to continue calling or show up at the house. (P.S. It's a work cell phone so changing the number would lead to questions about why he wants to

A couple was invited to a swanky masked Halloween Party.
She got a terrible headache and told her husband to go to the party alone. He being a devoted husband, protested, but she argued and said she was going to take some aspirin and go to bed, and there was no need of his good time being spoiled by not going. So he took his costume and away he went.
The wife, after sleeping soundly for one hour, awakened without pain and as it was still early, she decided to go the party.
In as much as her husband did not know what her costume was, she thought she would have some fun by watching her husband to see how he acted when she was not with him.
She joined the party and soon spotted her husband cavorting around on the dance floor, dancing with every nice chick he could, and copping a little feel here and a little kiss there.
His wife sidled up to him and being a rather seductive babe herself, he left his partner high and dry and devoted his time to the new stuff that had just arrived.
She let him go as far as he wished; naturally, since he was her husband.
Finally, he whispered a little proposition in her ear and she agreed, so off they went to one of the cars and had a little bang. Just before unmasking at midnight, she slipped away and went home and put the costume away and got into bed, wondering what kind of explanation he would make for his behaviour.
She was sitting up reading when he came in and asked what kind of a time he had.
He said, "Oh, the same old thing. You know I never have a good time when you're not there."
Then she asked, "Did you dance much?"
He replied, "I'll tell you, I never even danced one dance.
When I got there, I met Pete, Bill Brown and some other guys, so we went into the den and played poker all evening.
But you're not going to believe what happened to the guy I loaned my costume to..."

The newly-weds are in their honeymoon suite and the groom decides to let the bride know where she stands right from the start of the marriage. He proceeds to take off his trousers and throw them at her. He says, "Put those on."
The bride replies, "I can't wear your trousers."
"And don't forget that" he replies, "I will always wear the trousers in this family!"
The bride takes off her knickers and throws them at him with the same request, "Try those on!"
He replies, "I can't get into your knickers!"
"And you never will if you don't change your attitude."

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and we argue a lot. He gets mad very easily and insults me, but when he's not mad, he treats me really well and is very romantic. The problem is that I love him with all my heart and I can't just forget him. Every time he hurts me, he wants me to "forget it and move on" like he does, but I just can't. If I get emotional, he just gets angrier. I've told him how I feel about this, and he either blames me or promises never to do it again.

Everybody tells me that he doesn't deserve me and that I'm too nice for him. I've tried to forget him and not talk to him, but I just can't. I feel so empty without him. If I don't call him he doesn't call for a week, and then if I do call, he's mad and asks me why I haven't called. We just started college, and we're going to different schools; I'm scared that he will find someone else. I really love him. What should I do? Has anyone been through something similar?

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when was the exact moment when you realized it was time to move on, or that it wasn't working in your previous relationship?

i.e: when he came into the bedroom wearing plaid socks.
or
when I walked in on him dressed in drag

My boyfriend is absolutely perfect for me, and I have no intention of leaving him anytime soon. Not for the world. We have a great thing going; I've finally met someone mature enough to fulfill my emotional needs (and there are a LOT of them), who I can see when I need to, and who treats me the way I want to be treated. But lately I've been feeling quite nostalgic...

Sorry to divulge so much, but I need to vent somewhere, and my boyfriend reads my livejournal.

I was seeing someone until May 2008, and I fell for him completely. He was very tall and very, very handsome, with big brown eyes. we connected outstandingly on a mental level, and we'd go on casual dates almost every weekend. He caught my attention in Model UN when he was a sophomore and I was a junior, even though he wasn't very talkative at first. I tried several times to strike up a conversation, and we became fast friends. The first time he asked me out was on Valentine's day (I made him special cookies - they must have been delicious!) shortly before I left on a week-long ski trip. We went to breakfast at a diner near his house, and it went swimmingly. We talked and talked and neither of us wanted to leave, just because there was so much to discuss! We got together frequently after that - nothing physical (other than a bit of hand-holding, big hugs, etc.; he's very modest about those sorts of things).

One night in March, we decided to go see his school's musical, which I had auditioned for but could not attend the callbacks (it's an all-boys school, so girls from the community are able to audition). We enjoyed the show, even with his friends from school present giving us a hard time (apparently attending school with no girls makes us seem more special), and afterward, I asked him to be my date to junior prom. He was adorably flustered, and said yes after a good deal of stuttering... so cute.

Anyway, we continued to see each other between then and prom. We planned everything meticulously; we would meet at my house, attach corsages (he asked what my favorite flower was and actually proceeded to find and purchase a beautiful white orchid wrist corsage... so pretty), and take photos, then to a friend's house to take more photos, then to his grandparents' house to take even more photos yet, and then finally, off to the main event.

We arrived, had dinner, danced for a while, and then I introduced him to some friends from school.

But things went horribly wrong when he met one friend of mine. I tend to be quite public about my relationships, so naturally, being high school students, everyone was perplexed when some gorgeous boy they had never heard of appeared at prom with me. So I was asked, "Is this your boyfriend?"

I had already decided that he would assume the label of "boyfriend" later that evening, but because I wasn't sure, I looked up at him and waited for his response. But instead of answering with the confident "yes" I had hoped for, he pulled me aside and proceeded to dismantle my hopes for a relationship with him, divulging all of the reasons that he was not ready for a commitment.

We haven't seen each other outside of Model UN since then. I tried to meet with him to talk about what had happen, but he was angry about that and just didn't want to hear about it. We've managed to remain friends (you just don't forget the hour-long discussions you have with people like him), but I still can't help but wonder what would have happened if the circumstances in his life allowed him to have a relationship.

Just to reiterate, my current boyfriend is the sweetest boy in the world, and I wouldn't want to put an end to the wonderful thing that we have. But the other guy was so comfortable.

I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I'm sure it's just a socially awkward cocktail of good chemistry, nostalgia, and an extensive healing process. But I do think of him often, and I talk about him all the time. I can tell it upsets my boyfriend, but this guy changed my life.

I'm not sure what to make of this, but I needed to vent. That's all.

Ok so my boyfriend’s birthday is in two weeks. My birthday was back in May and he didn’t get me jack! He knew how excited I was for my birthday and all I did was talk about a month in advance He didn’t get me as much as a 99 cent card. And when I told him how hurt I was, he didn’t even do a thing to try and make up for it. He response was “Birthdays are not a big deal to me” But you knew it was a big deal for your women you Moron! So didn’t the light bulb go off and say well I could as least get her a card.. Nope still to this day.. Nothing!
So in two week its his birthday and he had the nerve to ask me “what are we doing for my birthday” WTF, but 4 months ago when it was my birthday “birthdays were not a big deal” So should I get him what he got me and that’s NOTHING or should I be the better person and get him something?? I just would like to see how much of a big deal his birthday is to him. Also I might add we have been together for about a year. I got nothing for Christmas which I didn’t make it a big deal because we only had been dating for 2 months. I also got nothing for Valentines Day nor my Birthday in May! Advice please??

mono? i think or I am pretty positive that is what I have. Got all the symptoms but really harsh ones. Like swollen glands in the neck, mild to harsh sore throat. A lot of coughing produced with nasty looking phlegm with slight light blood streaking. Body fevers and loss of apatite. Aching muscles and tiredness. Hardly able to swallow food it's a hassle also..
just wondering how long it lasted for you guys. How long does it usually last?
any experiences.
thank you!