Well....I have to admit that if you whisper in my ear or simply breathe in it...I just go crazy!

I have a very religious friend that has not dated much, married her high school sweetheart and then divorced. Recently I set her up on a date, things were going really well and then suddenly she had to go home because something had grossed her out.

She immediately called me. "What did he do that was so gross?" I asked. "He stuck his tongue in my ear! Ewww!" My cell was beeping and he was on the another line...:What the hell did I do wrong?" he asked me.

I personally couldn't see why two grown adults couldn't have just communicated better. All she had to do was simply tell him that she preferred he not do that. I cannot believe a date ended over a tongue in the ear incident! I love her---she is one of my best friends---but she is going to be single forever if she does not learn to communicate her likes and dislikes.

Me...I can't explain why my ear is such an erotic zone for me...or why it absolutely does nothing for my husband. He knows I love this and loves making me squirm wonderfully by whispering naughty things in my ear or just moaning in my ear.

Communication is a really big deal...otherwise I wouldn't know that scratching his back drives him crazy. If you don't share these things then how are you supposed to discover these things? Are we supposed to just guess what is each person's erotic zone?

Of course...ears are a fabulous starting point for me. I have a close friend that has a thing about ankles...and a shoe fetish. He could look at ankles and shoes and just squirm like crazy...imagine what his girlfriend could accomplish if he shared this information with her!

How would you react to a boyfriend that admits to a ankle/shoe fetish?

What is your favorite personal erotic zone? Have you been too embarrassed to admit it?