You had your makeout fun, I'm pretty sure you'll find better kisses. I'd leave him alone, he doesn't really know what he wants. You said he's all about having sex with you and getting with you. I don't think that's something you want to get involved with unless you just want a f*ck buddy. He obviously has a lot of problems to work out concerning that chick and really if he was truly genuinely into you, he would have just left her and hooked up with you. Protect yourself girl, just leave him be. Find a real man. (LOL, no I'm not referring to myself).

That last sentence probably sounded weird (thinking about it 5 seconds later). But I'm serious, don't waste your time. He's such a poser.

Oh god...men can totally makeout with you without falling for you. Maybe he was just getting revenge on his gf? Just because she cheated on him doesn't mean they are going to break up. They could totally work it out. Many couples do.

You can't break them up. Karma...is going to go kick you in the ass. Don't be so desperate, there are tons of guys out there you can date. Why the fuck would you want to date a guy who would cheat on his gf anyways. If you actually want a meaningful relationship with him wait until he breaks up with her (don't engage in anything phsyical in the meant time). He needs to short that shit out on his own. Don't let someone use you as a cum dumpster to get over his ex. Honestly cuz that's all you are right now huny.

"What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty or democracy?" Ghandi

Stay away from this guy. He doesn't know what he wants and you'll probably get hurt. Why would you want to be with a guy who's cheated on his g/f? He probably made out with you becuase he was"horny" and you were the closest person. He sounds like he has issues - he needs to work them out with his g/f - not you - for better or for worse.

You're right, he doesn't love his girlfriend. But he also doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Move on and get your own man. Even if this guy said he wanted to be with you, you'd worry the entire relationship because you know he's capable of cheating. He's a dog. Lose him.

First of all, I HATE CHEATERS AND THE PEOPLE THEY CHEAT WITH!!!
Anyway, with that stated upfront, here's my some what harsh opinion:

Did you ever consider he might have been lying about his gf cheating on him? Unless you were there, you don't know if it's true or not. It sounds like you justified cheating with him because you felt sorry he was cheated on. Isn't that a great way to get rid of any guilt(sarcasm) and justify going against any morals or values you had. You wrote you wouldn't dare go for it b/c he has a gf, but you did anyway.

For god sakes, why do you not want him out of your life yet? If you get him to leave his gf for you, do you really think you'll have won the lottery or grand prize sweepstakes? Does it really matter why he stays with his alleged cheating gf? Why not ask yourself, why you want to be with someone who cheats.

He's Red Flag Trouble. Imagine what might happen to you if and when his gf finds out? I agree with cyl about karma kicking you in the ass. It will kick you in the ass hard!!! So, I'd expect something in the mail, so to speak.

If you decide to become his gf, wouldn't you start to wonder if he was cheating on you? He cheated WITH you, so why wouldn't he cheat ON you? All the above posters are right about him. Unless you thrive on drama, get far away from him.

Don't be flattered by his attention. Respect yourself and remember your morals.

Why would you want a relationship with a man who is willing to cheat on his gf by having sex with you? Even if you do end up with him, what makes you think that he would be faithful to you? BTW, he wants to have sex with you to get back at his gf for what she did. If he is still with his gf, he obviously doesn't want a relationship with you, just sex. Why would you want to be involved with someone like this??????????????????????